Today I went to my friend Andi's funeral.
Andi was an incredible fighter. The bravery that she fought this horrible disease with was amazing.
Andi was also hilarious-she had a great sense of humor and was cracking jokes even while she was in horrible pain.
Andi, you were such a welcoming person. There was never a time that you felt too miserable to visit with Earl & I. Even in your final days, you smiled when we visited and I knew you were glad that we were there.
Andi, you were so brave. When Dr. Wong told you that you were going to be transferred to palliative care, you still were able to put on a smile and come tell me about it.
Andi, I'll miss you.
Tonight when I go in for another round of chemo, I'll be looking at your room and be hit with the fact that you're not there. I'll miss not being able to come visit you whenever I'm lonely or bored.
I'm so glad Andi that you're not suffering anymore. Most people will never even come close to experiencing the kind of pain that you went through. You fought hard and I'm so proud!
Earl & I chatted with Bobby for a long time today, Andi. He was sitting with us during the meal. He's a great man and he loved you so incredibly much.
And so Andi, I now say good-bye.
I'm so glad we were able to meet and become friends. I can't wait to see you in heaven.
I love you
Ramona
Earl Cooke, myself and Andi Jan. /08
All diagnosed with sarcoma and all having chemo at the same time
5 comments:
I'm so sorry to hear about Andi. I'm glad that she's not in pain anymore, but my heart goes out to those she left behind. Jobina and I lost our Aunt today...she was fighting cancer as well. I don't know why but it seems like there is more people with cancer these days than there used to be and the victims of this horrible disease seem to get younger every year.
My sincere condolences and prayers to Andi's friends and family. Rest in peace Andi...
Michele (Jobina's sister)
Ramona and Earl,
I'm really sorry to hear about the loss of your friend, Andi. May God hold both you and her family near...Much love~Roshonna
Hey EArl and RAmona,
I'm sorry to hear about Andi, too. I wonder how you are doing during this week of chemo. We think of you everyday and trust that God is holding you and leading you gently thru all this. Even tho you haven't mentioned it this time I remember other times you've asked for prayer for nauseousness and anxiety so we'll keep praying about those things. Also praying you'll persevere in your faith and know God is actively at work...
praying for your bond as a couple and as best friends that it will become stronger and deeper than ever and that you'll look at each other and be overwhelmed with love and gratitude!
we miss you! Christy and Jake and fam
so sorry for Andy, you have such difficult moments, Wish I could help you
I'm with you, WE are with you Lilou and I
all my love
Brigitte
I was touched by the tribute..it makes me cry. When the struggle ends in VICTORY..it becomes a beautiful thing. May the Lord comfort Andi's family and you Ramona, as you remember her friendship to you.
Love, Gloria.
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