Monday, July 21, 2008

I guess there has been quite a bit going on since the last post. First, Jay and Lonita got married a couple of days ago. A huge congratulations to those kids...and I hope you guys are relaxing and enjoying your honeymoon. In the midst of the fun of a wedding we've also been talking to doctors.
Trying to summarize:
At the time of the last post Dr. Wong had essentially no hope of any good news for Ramona. A day or two later I had the reports of the scans sent to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, hoping that they might find some glimmer of hope. The email I got back from Mayo is likely the most discouraging five sentences ever written. There was no way to glean any hope from that email. Palliative chemo, is what he was talking about. Meanwhile, we have been talking to Oasis to see if they really knew what they are talking about. I seriously questioned them and the group of doctors saw her case again last Thursday. They called me on Thursday and stuck to their guns that Ramona is in good shape. And this has been our struggle, how can doctors look at the same scans and have such different interpretations.
Anyway, today we had a Telehealth appointment with Dr. Waddell (lung surgeon) in Toronto. To our surprise, he said that to him, all the tumors in the chest looked operable. Lung surgery is not exactly an appealing thought, but it was refreshing to talk to someone outside of Oasis who atleast had a small glimmer of hope too. He would need chemo to be done first. We asked him when he thought chemo would start. He figured chemo would need to start in 3-6 months. So this is where we are at, in the time before the doctors here think chemo would need to start, we hope it will become even more apparent that the Oasis treatment is working. We will do everything possible to boost Ramona's health during this time. We have asked Dr. Wong to have a scan done at the end of August to evaluate where everything is at.
One good thing that has happened is that medical uncertainty is a huge wake up call for us. The God who we often think doesn't care, is actually the same God who loves us enough to have sent Jesus to die for us. God does miracles, not doctors.
-Earl

9 comments:

. said...

thanks for writing, earl. i especially love your last sentence!

Thank-you God: for sending Jesus, for loving earl and moni so deeply, for what you ahve aready done in their lives, and for miracles!

love you,
dayna

ps- congrats to jay and lonita!

Anonymous said...

Struggling with health issues myself,i found our Sunday church service to be very comforting,It was a reminder about how good things happen in our lives,and we know its a blessing from God,but when bad things like health problems happen ,do we see the good in that also?Its very hard to see it sometimes,but its there,because ALL things work for good to those who love Him,And it reminds us that He still loves us and is using us to do good,so no matter what happens,lets remember God is in the center of all this,and He cares deeply.I will continue to pray for you Ramona and Earl,and I totally agree,God works miracles,not doctors!God Bless You!!

Brigitte said...

ok ! that's very difficult to leave these 2 points of vue ! hope you will find the strengh to find the good way, all my love and blessings brigitte

Anonymous said...

Thanks for updating. I was a bit behind the times in realizing where you guys were at, and now am happy to hear that some of the uncertainty is a bit clearer. I was in bed with the flu yesterday, and Ramona, I couldn't help but think of you going for chemo again. I felt so yucky and nauseous and I don't know what chemo feels like, but I know it's WAY worse, and just the fact that you seem ready to tackle it again AMAZES me. You're SUCH a fighter. Some things never change eh?! I just want you to know I've done a lot of praying and constantly thinking about you guys. Hope Winnipeg is still in your plans, cause it would be SO nice for me/us to be closer to you guys.
Take care of yourself, and I'm dreaming of organic foods and snacks, etc...we need to have you over again!
Love you,
Melissa

The Duecks said...

We found the messages on Job by Dr Keller at www.Redeemer.com to be very helpful. They are easy to download and they can be listened to many times over.
We pray for you and wish you all the best.

Danelle said...

Ramona & Earl, thanks for continuing to share your journey with us. You are such an encouragement to us. We are praying that God will give you wisdom as you make decisions these next few months.

-Larry & Danelle

Anonymous said...

Have you heard about all the healing taking place in Florida? Todd Bentley in some Lakehead??? place. We had some friends of a friend just get back and they were speechless, I know it sounds crazy, just don't want to exclude what God is doing down south that is making news headlines in the states. Just a thought.

A Journey with Cancer said...

HI Earl and Ramona,
You are continuing to be in my prayers and I am reminded so often of you and your struggles. Earl will finally going home on Wednesday. We have to travel by air ambulance, so that should be interesting. He is getting a little anxious, worrying about how people will react to him now and worrying of course about the upcoming chemo. Take care and we will look forward to getting together with you both very soon.
Debbie

Anonymous said...

Hi Earl and Ramona, (and their friends and family),
Our family wants to participate in the terry fox run. We would love to run for you Ramona! I know last year that you guys did the arborg one. I was wondering if we could join you and other people that are running for you. I saw on the terry fox website three places that you might consider, fisher branch, arborg and winnipeg. Are you guys hoping to attend one? do you know if other people are walking for you Ramona and could we join them?
if anyone wanted to email me you could at clthie@mts.net
Okay we love you guys and our hearts are with you.
love chuck and laura thiessen